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hubby's on steroids and 24/7 is getting a bit grrrrrrrrrr need advise ladies
ladies i need some advise my hubby's on steds and even tho he hasnt gone nasty as i have heard most men do , and he would never be unfaithfull as i have also heard most do when being on steds, but he has gone a bit more agresive during sex now when i say agresive i dont mean by hitting me or anythink like that or abusive , just in the manner at which he goes and also he wants it like 24/7 and like pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee hello i am raising 4 kids and bb my self here .
has anyone else been through this with their man ??????
when i talk to him about this its like talking to a brick wall as he doesnt see he has changed what so ever please could do with some feed back on this so please ladies dont say im alone in this .
ladies i need some advise my hubby's on steds and even tho he hasnt gone nasty as i have heard most men do , and he would never be unfaithfull as i have also heard most do when being on steds, but he has gone a bit more agresive during sex now when i say agresive i dont mean by hitting me or anythink like that or abusive , just in the manner at which he goes and also he wants it like 24/7 and like pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee hello i am raising 4 kids and bb my self here .
has anyone else been through this with their man ??????
when i talk to him about this its like talking to a brick wall as he doesnt see he has changed what so ever please could do with some feed back on this so please ladies dont say im alone in this . I'm not on roids, but I think like him. lol Seriously though I don't know.
Tell him he has two hands and to take care of it himself.
I dont care what anyone says, steriod usage can become an obsession, and addiction, just like all the other drug out their. Anytime that your dealing with a substance that alters body and brain chemestry, it will become an addiction over extensive usage. I would say for him to get off of them, or make him chose you and your family, or the roids. But Im not sure, that could backfire, and im sure that you dont want to lose him. He will not see he is acting differently because his chemestry is off, and he'll shift with it without realizing what hes doing. Thats about all I can come up with.
Some people can't deal with gear at higher dosages.
He needs to quit or leave him.
But you should get some one who knows both of you involved personally so yall can talk through this.
And I wouldn't drop any bombs (major announcements) because we don't need another Chris Benoit incident.
If he does get physically abusive, I would not say anything and just leave before he can hurt you
I dont care what anyone says, steriod usage can become an obsession, and addiction, just like all the other drug out their. Anytime that your dealing with a substance that alters body and brain chemestry, it will become an addiction over extensive usage. I would say for him to get off of them, or make him chose you and your family, or the roids. But Im not sure, that could backfire, and im sure that you dont want to lose him. He will not see he is acting differently because his chemestry is off, and he'll shift with it without realizing what hes doing. Thats about all I can come up with.
buy him a fleshlight (serious)
Tell him he has two hands and to take care of it himself. Then what did he get married for?
It would be like buying porn that you never watch.
tell him to quit the roids.
his wangs gunna get smaller too [no homo]
lara,
No you're not alone on this one. I dated some men who used to do frequent steroid cycles, but none got to the point that you're mentioning. One did get a bit too aggressive in his demeanor for my tastes and I mentioned it to him as casually as I could, trying to convince him to perhaps shorten his cycle or forego it. Eventually he did, but I'm afraid it wasn't as my request - some other health threats that his doctor pointed out to him lead him to eventually stop.
Either way, you can't ignore it; it has to be addressed before it gets any worse.
ladies i need some advise my hubby's on steds and even tho he hasnt gone nasty as i have heard most men do , and he would never be unfaithfull as i have also heard most do when being on steds, but he has gone a bit more agresive during sex now when i say agresive i dont mean by hitting me or anythink like that or abusive , just in the manner at which he goes and also he wants it like 24/7 and like pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee hello i am raising 4 kids and bb my self here .
has anyone else been through this with their man ??????
when i talk to him about this its like talking to a brick wall as he doesnt see he has changed what so ever please could do with some feed back on this so please ladies dont say im alone in this . sorry, im not a lady, but think i can chime in as i have gone through this before
im 28, have 2 kids under 2 and am married
when i told my wife i wanted to try steriods again(last time was 5 yrs ago) she freaked out
i made a commitment to her that if it was detremental to our relationship, then i would stop them immediatly
i have no desire to cheat on my wife on cycle or off
roids only enhance your personality
im not sure an increased sex drive is detremental for the relationship though
my wife sure has me hustling for sex though, and i have no issues helping her out whenever i can if she can help me :)
it does sound like the juice has got to his head though, it did the same to me when i was 21
my gf at the time(now my wife) told me it changed me, but i didnt want to hear it and thought she was being critical because i was on them
i would lay out your concerns to him about it and let him know if its interfering with the well being of your relationship(if he will listen)
dont blame the steroids though, just tell him how hes been acting lately
i often think that if i do something my wife doesnt agree with, she will blame it on the roids and not me
hasnt happen yet though
It might be wise to go to the seroids section of the site and read theough some of the posts.
Also perhaps ask the guys there what they have experienced and how they have dealt with it, I'm sure there's a lot going on in his head that you don't understand and you need to get some support and advice.
best of luck to the both of you :)
thanks all for advise and comments
hi just wanna say thanks for your advise and comments . hubby and i have had a good talk i told him exactly how i feel, and both agreed he will quit if it gets too much , hes cycling off now phewww ( rest for me lol ) and at least now we have had chat all should be diff next time, ( as he said he dosn't want to lose his family for a cycle .
thanks again to you all your just fab x
sorry, im not a lady, but think i can chime in as i have gone through this before
im 28, have 2 kids under 2 and am married
when i told my wife i wanted to try steriods again(last time was 5 yrs ago) she freaked out
i made a commitment to her that if it was detremental to our relationship, then i would stop them immediatly
i have no desire to cheat on my wife on cycle or off
roids only enhance your personality
im not sure an increased sex drive is detremental for the relationship though
my wife sure has me hustling for sex though, and i have no issues helping her out whenever i can if she can help me :)
it does sound like the juice has got to his head though, it did the same to me when i was 21
my gf at the time(now my wife) told me it changed me, but i didnt want to hear it and thought she was being critical because i was on them
i would lay out your concerns to him about it and let him know if its interfering with the well being of your relationship(if he will listen)
dont blame the steroids though, just tell him how hes been acting lately
i often think that if i do something my wife doesnt agree with, she will blame it on the roids and not me
hasnt happen yet though
5x10 thanks so much for your advise i showed my hubby your post and he totally agreed thanks
Whats great is that he is atleast open to discussion which means you folks can work it out. He's lucky to have you as a missus btw :)
An alternative
A simple way of reducing the 'agression' would be to take an anti-estrogen or up his dose if already taking one. Tamoxifen/Nolvadex is the normal drug for this. It will also reduce other side effects as well such as gyno, acne, shrunken testes etc..
If he's going to come off the gear, ensure he does his PCT correctly otherwise he/you will run into other potential problems.
Best wishes
I dont care what anyone says, steriod usage can become an obsession, and addiction, just like all the other drug out their. Anytime that your dealing with a substance that alters body and brain chemestry, it will become an addiction over extensive usage. I would say for him to get off of them, or make him chose you and your family, or the roids. But Im not sure, that could backfire, and im sure that you dont want to lose him. He will not see he is acting differently because his chemestry is off, and he'll shift with it without realizing what hes doing. Thats about all I can come up with. +1 on that... I agree 100%.. steroids are steroids and that's just the way it goes with the side effects... just read-up on stories of people on steroids and you'll find out more and maybe it will motivate your hub to make a choice as smallfry said
ladies i need some advise my hubby's on steds and even tho he hasnt gone nasty as i have heard most men do , and he would never be unfaithfull as i have also heard most do when being on steds, but he has gone a bit more agresive during sex now when i say agresive i dont mean by hitting me or anythink like that or abusive , just in the manner at which he goes and also he wants it like 24/7 and like pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee hello i am raising 4 kids and bb my self here .
has anyone else been through this with their man ??????
when i talk to him about this its like talking to a brick wall as he doesnt see he has changed what so ever please could do with some feed back on this so please ladies dont say im alone in this .
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ladies i need some advise my hubby's on steds and even tho he hasnt gone nasty as i have heard most men do , and he would never be unfaithfull as i have also heard most do when being on steds, but he has gone a bit more agresive during sex now when i say agresive i dont mean by hitting me or anythink like that or abusive , just in the manner at which he goes and also he wants it like 24/7 and like pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee hello i am raising 4 kids and bb my self here .
has anyone else been through this with their man ??????
when i talk to him about this its like talking to a brick wall as he doesnt see he has changed what so ever please could do with some feed back on this so please ladies dont say im alone in this . I'm not on roids, but I think like him. lol Seriously though I don't know.
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Tell him he has two hands and to take care of it himself.
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I dont care what anyone says, steriod usage can become an obsession, and addiction, just like all the other drug out their. Anytime that your dealing with a substance that alters body and brain chemestry, it will become an addiction over extensive usage. I would say for him to get off of them, or make him chose you and your family, or the roids. But Im not sure, that could backfire, and im sure that you dont want to lose him. He will not see he is acting differently because his chemestry is off, and he'll shift with it without realizing what hes doing. Thats about all I can come up with.
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Some people can't deal with gear at higher dosages.
He needs to quit or leave him.
But you should get some one who knows both of you involved personally so yall can talk through this.
And I wouldn't drop any bombs (major announcements) because we don't need another Chris Benoit incident.
If he does get physically abusive, I would not say anything and just leave before he can hurt you
I dont care what anyone says, steriod usage can become an obsession, and addiction, just like all the other drug out their. Anytime that your dealing with a substance that alters body and brain chemestry, it will become an addiction over extensive usage. I would say for him to get off of them, or make him chose you and your family, or the roids. But Im not sure, that could backfire, and im sure that you dont want to lose him. He will not see he is acting differently because his chemestry is off, and he'll shift with it without realizing what hes doing. Thats about all I can come up with.
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buy him a fleshlight (serious)
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Tell him he has two hands and to take care of it himself. Then what did he get married for?
It would be like buying porn that you never watch.
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tell him to quit the roids.
his wangs gunna get smaller too [no homo]
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lara,
No you're not alone on this one. I dated some men who used to do frequent steroid cycles, but none got to the point that you're mentioning. One did get a bit too aggressive in his demeanor for my tastes and I mentioned it to him as casually as I could, trying to convince him to perhaps shorten his cycle or forego it. Eventually he did, but I'm afraid it wasn't as my request - some other health threats that his doctor pointed out to him lead him to eventually stop.
Either way, you can't ignore it; it has to be addressed before it gets any worse.
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ladies i need some advise my hubby's on steds and even tho he hasnt gone nasty as i have heard most men do , and he would never be unfaithfull as i have also heard most do when being on steds, but he has gone a bit more agresive during sex now when i say agresive i dont mean by hitting me or anythink like that or abusive , just in the manner at which he goes and also he wants it like 24/7 and like pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee hello i am raising 4 kids and bb my self here .
has anyone else been through this with their man ??????
when i talk to him about this its like talking to a brick wall as he doesnt see he has changed what so ever please could do with some feed back on this so please ladies dont say im alone in this . sorry, im not a lady, but think i can chime in as i have gone through this before
im 28, have 2 kids under 2 and am married
when i told my wife i wanted to try steriods again(last time was 5 yrs ago) she freaked out
i made a commitment to her that if it was detremental to our relationship, then i would stop them immediatly
i have no desire to cheat on my wife on cycle or off
roids only enhance your personality
im not sure an increased sex drive is detremental for the relationship though
my wife sure has me hustling for sex though, and i have no issues helping her out whenever i can if she can help me :)
it does sound like the juice has got to his head though, it did the same to me when i was 21
my gf at the time(now my wife) told me it changed me, but i didnt want to hear it and thought she was being critical because i was on them
i would lay out your concerns to him about it and let him know if its interfering with the well being of your relationship(if he will listen)
dont blame the steroids though, just tell him how hes been acting lately
i often think that if i do something my wife doesnt agree with, she will blame it on the roids and not me
hasnt happen yet though
Answer:
It might be wise to go to the seroids section of the site and read theough some of the posts.
Also perhaps ask the guys there what they have experienced and how they have dealt with it, I'm sure there's a lot going on in his head that you don't understand and you need to get some support and advice.
best of luck to the both of you :)
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thanks all for advise and comments
hi just wanna say thanks for your advise and comments . hubby and i have had a good talk i told him exactly how i feel, and both agreed he will quit if it gets too much , hes cycling off now phewww ( rest for me lol ) and at least now we have had chat all should be diff next time, ( as he said he dosn't want to lose his family for a cycle .
thanks again to you all your just fab x
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sorry, im not a lady, but think i can chime in as i have gone through this before
im 28, have 2 kids under 2 and am married
when i told my wife i wanted to try steriods again(last time was 5 yrs ago) she freaked out
i made a commitment to her that if it was detremental to our relationship, then i would stop them immediatly
i have no desire to cheat on my wife on cycle or off
roids only enhance your personality
im not sure an increased sex drive is detremental for the relationship though
my wife sure has me hustling for sex though, and i have no issues helping her out whenever i can if she can help me :)
it does sound like the juice has got to his head though, it did the same to me when i was 21
my gf at the time(now my wife) told me it changed me, but i didnt want to hear it and thought she was being critical because i was on them
i would lay out your concerns to him about it and let him know if its interfering with the well being of your relationship(if he will listen)
dont blame the steroids though, just tell him how hes been acting lately
i often think that if i do something my wife doesnt agree with, she will blame it on the roids and not me
hasnt happen yet though
5x10 thanks so much for your advise i showed my hubby your post and he totally agreed thanks
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Whats great is that he is atleast open to discussion which means you folks can work it out. He's lucky to have you as a missus btw :)
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An alternative
A simple way of reducing the 'agression' would be to take an anti-estrogen or up his dose if already taking one. Tamoxifen/Nolvadex is the normal drug for this. It will also reduce other side effects as well such as gyno, acne, shrunken testes etc..
If he's going to come off the gear, ensure he does his PCT correctly otherwise he/you will run into other potential problems.
Best wishes
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I dont care what anyone says, steriod usage can become an obsession, and addiction, just like all the other drug out their. Anytime that your dealing with a substance that alters body and brain chemestry, it will become an addiction over extensive usage. I would say for him to get off of them, or make him chose you and your family, or the roids. But Im not sure, that could backfire, and im sure that you dont want to lose him. He will not see he is acting differently because his chemestry is off, and he'll shift with it without realizing what hes doing. Thats about all I can come up with. +1 on that... I agree 100%.. steroids are steroids and that's just the way it goes with the side effects... just read-up on stories of people on steroids and you'll find out more and maybe it will motivate your hub to make a choice as smallfry said